淫性视频 Commemorates Transgender Day of Remembrance
Em McHugh, '22, of Kalediscope spoke about hope and the importance of being there for the next generation during their remarks for Nov. 20's Transgender Day of Remembrance.
Galloway, N.J. 鈥 淫性视频 students were invited at a Nov. 20 event to take a moment and learn more about Transgender Day of Remembrance, a nationally commemorated holiday that is meant to remember and honor the lives of transgender individuals lost to violence.
The event in the Michael Jacobson Board of Trustees Room included brief remarks during a free breakfast and featured artwork and poetry created by trans 淫性视频 students. Various organizations also tabled and offered resources to students, including the (WGSC), , student organizations and and the off-campus program , which is an extension of the Center for Family Services that exclusively serves LGBTQ+ individuals in New Jersey.
Van Nhi Ho, the coordinator for LGBTQ+ initiatives for the WGSC, hosted the event for the second year with two goals in mind 鈥 to continue creating safe and brave spaces for transgender students on campus and to educate the campus community on the violence that the transgender community faces. During the event, Ho shared troubling statistics from the Human Rights Campaign that demonstrated such violence:
According to Ho, reading such statistics and hearing the stories of transgender individuals being discriminated against and even murdered isn鈥檛 meant for people to feel bad 鈥 it鈥檚 meant to inspire change. She reminded the audience that, as 淫性视频 students, the power to be agents of change rests with them.
鈥淭ransgender Day of Remembrance is not just about mourning the lives lost. It's a call to action, an opportunity for us to reflect on the challenges faced by our transgender siblings and to envision a future of inclusivity, respect and understanding,鈥 Ho said. 鈥淚n empowering and supporting our transgender peers, we are not only enriching our lives but contributing to the vibrant tapestry that is our college experience. So, let's not just remember today as a day of death, but let us commit to taking meaningful action. I want us to engage in conversations that challenge our ignorance, be an ally in times of need and actively contribute to a campus culture that uplifts and empowers everyone.鈥
The theme of power continued during remarks from both President Joe Bertolino and Em McHugh, a representative from Kaleidoscope who graduated from 淫性视频 last spring.
As a "proud member of the queer community," Bertolino said he has been grateful for the WGSC and student organizations like and the for offering resources and hosting events like last month鈥檚 flag raising, vigil for queer lives and clothing swap that positively impact students in the LGBTQ+ community. He hopes that students continue to work to make 淫性视频 an inclusive campus for all.
鈥淚t can be difficult and painful to go through certain transitions, but at the same time, it can be celebratory and empowering. We want to make sure that we are helping our community members and our students to be safe, and we want to celebrate and be empowered with them,鈥 Bertolino said. 鈥淚f you see someone in need or struggling, or if you see just an opportunity to engage in a conversation with someone who could potentially be an ally, use that power to speak, educate and support. At the end of the day, we want to ensure that folks in our community are treated with dignity, respect, kindness, compassion, civility, and we want to ensure that the folks belong and that they feel heard and seen.鈥
Despite the solemn nature of the day, McHugh found a ray of hope. They discussed their role at Kaleidoscope, where they meet with many LGBTQ+ youth who are trying to understand their identity and find a community on a daily basis. According to McHugh, it鈥檚 those youth that inspire them to continue their advocacy.
鈥淭here have been days where I have wanted to stay in bed after watching the news, yet I still rise, and I see those kids because they help me realize how important my life is. To these kids, they don't see an adult who cries over every sad news story; they see a proud, trans, queer adult who is living and someone who was able to make it out of high school and create a career where they are able to surround themselves with other trans and queer people. They see what life could be like for them,鈥 McHugh said. 鈥淥n days of struggle, remember this: you matter, even to kids you will never meet. Your life is an act of defiance against a world that does not want us to be here.鈥
Galloway, N.J. 鈥 Students didn鈥檛 just have a chance to meet their advisor on Preceptor Day 鈥 they also had an opportunity to participate in multiple Oct. 26 events organized for October鈥檚 national LGBTQ+ History Month.
During 鈥淗onoring the Lives and Identities of the Queer Community,鈥 which included impactful speeches and a vigil for queer lives lost, a common theme among speakers was the importance of allyship.
Van Nhi Ho, the graduate coordinator for LGBTQ+ initiatives for the Women鈥檚 Gender & Sexuality Center, started off the speeches by defining what it means to be an ally to the queer community.
鈥淚n an allyship, you don't just step in when it's convenient or to say something just because you're asked to: You proactively are an ally to this community, not just when it's popular or when it's easy to show off to people on social media. It's an actual role to play actively in your life, and I think that in itself is a very powerful thing to remember, especially as students, that we can use our voices and be allies to multiple communities,鈥 Ho said.
鈥 Story by Loukaia Taylor
鈥 Story by Loukaia Taylor
鈥 Photos by Lizzie Nealis
